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Buhari Recalls All Ambassadors Appointed By Jonathan

President Muhammadu Buhari has recalled Nigerian ambassadors in foreign countries. The ambassadors were recalled as part of efforts to reposition the country’s foreign policies.


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When contacted, the Special Adviser to the President on Media and Publicity, Femi Adesina, confirmed the recall. He however said only non-career ambassadors are affected in the recall.
“Yes, I can confirm to you that non-career ambassadors have been recalled by the Federal Government,” the presidential spokesman said.

My First Daughter Said I Would Die In Office – Obasanjo

Former President Olusegun Obasanjo has revealed that his eldest daughter, Iyabo, told him he was going to die in office. He also said his daughter said if that should happen, she would not weep for him.
The former President said he, nevertheless, replied his daughter that such weeping or no weeping would not mean anything to him since he would not be there to appreciate it.





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On how he became President in 1999, Obasanjo said: “My mind was almost made up (to vie for the position of President) but I had to consult with my children. I got four of them together in New York.
“I told them I was going to decide whether to go into politics or not. Iyabo was the most antagonistic. She burst out loudly, ‘I know you will join and you will die there and if you die, I will not weep’.
“I told her ‘if I die and you weep, it is for yourself and others, not for me as I will not know you are weeping.’
“It is ironic that within 10 years, Iyabo became a Senator and I completed two terms of eight years without a scratch.”
Obasanjo made these revelations in his controversial book – MY WATCH.
The meeting with the four children came after he had consulted almost all those that mattered.
President Obasanjo added that out of the four children in attendance when he spoke with them, it was only Segun who he said, had a few words of encouragement.
The son, according to Obasanjo, said, “Daddy, you have always said that we must serve God and humanity and if this is the way you have chosen to serve God and humanity, I will pray for you.”
Obasanjo mentioned the names of his 21 children in the book. Five of them are holders of PhD.
He said it was ironic that the same Iyabo, who made noise, later became a senator during his tenure.

Ex-Governor Sule Lamido Cries Out From Prison!!!

After spending just 72 hours with his two sons in Kano Central Prison, immediate past governor of Jigawa State, Sule Lamido, has cried out and imputed political motives to his incarceration.

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According to the former governor, he is being persecuted by those who feel that they would not be able to actualise their presidential ambition in 2019 with him around the political arena.
Lamido, who spoke exclusively to Sunday Vanguard through his media aide, Umar Kyari, drew the attention of Nigerians and the international community to the attempt being made by those he called “my political enemies” to silence him using the instrumentality of the EFCC.
Lamido pointed out that it was clear from the outset that there was a grand design to put him away in prison for a long time under the guise of money laundering so as to pave the way for his political enemies.
The former governor, whose many supporters relocated to the Kano Central Prison where they kept vigil over him and his two sons, said he was determined to prove to Nigerians that he was innocent but was merely being witch-hunted by those who feel threatened by his rising political profile.
Lamido’s spokesman said: “This current effort to frame and denigrate the former governor of Jigawa State with a view to rubbishing his high performance in office will come to naught at the end of the day.
“Lamido remains nothing but a scion of accountability and integrity who has always fought on the side of the people, particularly the downtrodden and the vulnerable, since he came into the national political scene.
“He remains unshaken over the trumped-up charges slammed on him by the EFCC knowing that he has not committed any offense to warrant being thrown into the prison over a bailable offense.
“But the refusal by his traducers to grant him and his sons bail when others charged same day and time for even more grievous offences were admitted to bail speaks volume of the intention and mindset of those who are after him.
“Nonetheless, Sule Lamido strongly believes that, after being imprisoned several times all in a bid to pave the way for sustained democracy in Nigeria, the current effort by the EFCC and others to humiliate him and his family over the so-called money laundering charges will not break his resolve to continue to fight on the side of the people.
“It is Lamido’s strong belief that having not committed any offense against the state to warrant being sent to prison, he and his sons will be freed and vindicated against the wicked plot of their adversaries”.
Meanwhile, Lamido is said to be overwhelmed by the large number of friends and well wishers from across Nigeria who have thronged the prison to show solidarity with him and his two sons.
A close source at the prison told Sunday Vanguard that Lamido was jolted by the show of love and solidarity that he shed what the source described as “tears of joy” on Friday.
You may wish to know that Lamido and his two sons, according to the charge sheet of the EFCC, are being tried for alleged money laundering of N1.3bn at a Federal High Court sitting in Kano.

horrifyingly accident on 3rd mainland bridge sad!!!!

 
A ghastly accident involving a commercial bus occurred this morning July 12th on 3rd Mainland Bridge. Eyewitnesses say the bus was in top speed when it suddenly flipped and somersaulted. More photos from the scene after the cut... 

    

PHOTO: D’Banj Arrested By Nigerian Police?

The Koko Master and DB records Boss, D’Banj is gradually becoming an unshakable entertainer both within and outside the country as he keeps the African love at heart wherever he goes to.
Despite his recent widely speculated debt crisis, the rumour has not deterred the singer from doing what he knows how to do best and his continuous agricultural campaign for Africa.
D’Banj who recently featured in the remix of ‘Double Wahala’ by Oritse Femi, is warming up as he sets to release his new single within couple of some hours which fans have been anticipating for long.
The singer has been moving from one place to another all in a bid to make the ministry of entertainment grow and to help propagate the essence of self development around the world.
While fans await the release of his song, they got shocked when they saw the singer with some policemen guarding him but never disclosed where he was being taken to.
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Check out the Pictures Below:
PHOTO D’Banj Arrested By Nigerian Police 3   PHOTO D’Banj Arrested By Nigerian Police 1
 Don’t think too much, nothing serious as the entertainer is being guarded on his way to entertain his fans
PHOTO D’Banj Arrested By Nigerian Police 2

The Koko Master and DB records Boss, D’Banj is gradually becoming an unshakable entertainer both within and outside the country as he keeps the African love at heart wherever he goes to.
- See more at: http://www.vibenigeria.com/photo-dbanj-arrested-nigerian-police/#sthash.1JLnKdGu.dpuf
The Koko Master and DB records Boss, D’Banj is gradually becoming an unshakable entertainer both within and outside the country as he keeps the African love at heart wherever he goes to.
- See more at: http://www.vibenigeria.com/photo-dbanj-arrested-nigerian-police/#sthash.1JLnKdGu.dpufv
The Koko Master and DB records Boss, D’Banj is gradually becoming an unshakable entertainer both within and outside the country as he keeps the African love at heart wherever he goes to.
- See more at: http://www.vibenigeria.com/photo-dbanj-arrested-nigerian-police/#sthash.1JLnKdGu.dpuf
The Koko Master and DB records Boss, D’Banj is gradually becoming an unshakable entertainer both within and outside the country as he keeps the African love at heart wherever he goes to.
Despite his recent widely speculated debt crisis, the rumour has not deterred the singer from doing what he knows how to do best and his continuous agricultural campaign for Africa.
D’Banj who recently featured in the remix of ‘Double Wahala’ by Oritse Femi, is warming up as he sets to release his new single within couple of some hours which fans have been anticipating for long.
- See more at: http://www.vibenigeria.com/photo-dbanj-arrested-nigerian-police/#sthash.1JLnKdGu.dpuf
The Koko Master and DB records Boss, D’Banj is gradually becoming an unshakable entertainer both within and outside the country as he keeps the African love at heart wherever he goes to.
Despite his recent widely speculated debt crisis, the rumour has not deterred the singer from doing what he knows how to do best and his continuous agricultural campaign for Africa.
D’Banj who recently featured in the remix of ‘Double Wahala’ by Oritse Femi, is warming up as he sets to release his new single within couple of some hours which fans have been anticipating for long.
- See more at: http://www.vibenigeria.com/photo-dbanj-arrested-nigerian-police/#sthash.1JLnKdGu.dpufvvvvvv
The Koko Master and DB records Boss, D’Banj is gradually becoming an unshakable entertainer both within and outside the country as he keeps the African love at heart wherever he goes to.
Despite his recent widely speculated debt crisis, the rumour has not deterred the singer from doing what he knows how to do best and his continuous agricultural campaign for Africa.
D’Banj who recently featured in the remix of ‘Double Wahala’ by Oritse Femi, is warming up as he sets to release his new single within couple of some hours which fans have been anticipating for long.
- See more at: http://www.vibenigeria.com/photo-dbanj-arrested-nigerian-police/#sthash.1JLnKdGu.dpuf
The Koko Master and DB records Boss, D’Banj is gradually becoming an unshakable entertainer both within and outside the country as he keeps the African love at heart wherever he goes to.
Despite his recent widely speculated debt crisis, the rumour has not deterred the singer from doing what he knows how to do best and his continuous agricultural campaign for Africa.
D’Banj who recently featured in the remix of ‘Double Wahala’ by Oritse Femi, is warming up as he sets to release his new single within couple of some hours which fans have been anticipating for long.
- See more at: http://www.vibenigeria.com/photo-dbanj-arrested-nigerian-police/#sthash.1JLnKdGu.dpuf
The Koko Master and DB records Boss, D’Banj is gradually becoming an unshakable entertainer both within and outside the country as he keeps the African love at heart wherever he goes to.
Despite his recent widely speculated debt crisis, the rumour has not deterred the singer from doing what he knows how to do best and his continuous agricultural campaign for Africa.
D’Banj who recently featured in the remix of ‘Double Wahala’ by Oritse Femi, is warming up as he sets to release his new single within couple of some hours which fans have been anticipating for long.
- See more at: http://www.vibenigeria.com/photo-dbanj-arrested-nigerian-police/#sthash.1JLnKdGu.dpuf
The Koko Master and DB records Boss, D’Banj is gradually becoming an unshakable entertainer both within and outside the country as he keeps the African love at heart wherever he goes to.
Despite his recent widely speculated debt crisis, the rumour has not deterred the singer from doing what he knows how to do best and his continuous agricultural campaign for Africa.
D’Banj who recently featured in the remix of ‘Double Wahala’ by Oritse Femi, is warming up as he sets to release his new single within couple of some hours which fans have been anticipating for long.
- See more at: http://www.vibenigeria.com/photo-dbanj-arrested-nigerian-police/#sthash.1JLnKdGu.dpuf
The Koko Master and DB records Boss, D’Banj is gradually becoming an unshakable entertainer both within and outside the country as he keeps the African love at heart wherever he goes to.
Despite his recent widely speculated debt crisis, the rumour has not deterred the singer from doing what he knows how to do best and his continuous agricultural campaign for Africa.
D’Banj who recently featured in the remix of ‘Double Wahala’ by Oritse Femi, is warming up as he sets to release his new single within couple of some hours which fans have been anticipating for long.
- See more at: http://www.vibenigeria.com/photo-dbanj-arrested-nigerian-police/#sthash.1JLnKdGu.dpuf

R.sholly produces his second movie tittled "life Drama"

life drama is a story of love,pains,poverty,horror and dealth of innocent souls
                                                                                                                                                                                      
its a must watch for everyhome!!!!!see more scene shot after the cut:












 watch the thriller below:
 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3VNVxUrCFw0



ent: NDLEA coming for Davido over 'Fans Mi' video with Meek Mill?

Looks like it. There have been rumours that the Nigerian Drug Law Enforcement Agency wants to question Davido over 'Fans Mi' video with US rapper Meek Mill which showed Davido handling substance suspected to be hard drugs. The rumours have been confirmed.  
  
Speaking with Punch yesterday, the Director of Public Affairs of the NDLEA, Mitchell Ofoyeju, said that the anti-drug agency is conducting a full-scale investigation into the making of the video and an investigative panel might invite Davido for questioning if the need arose

“I am aware that a panel is working on it (the video). The panel was set up soon after the video was released few weeks ago. When our attention was drawn to it, we viewed it and we discovered that it was improper. There is no moral lesson in it and he was just advertising drug trafficking.
"In the video, he exchanged a brief case supposedly containing narcotics for dollars. He was displaying affluence in the video. If it (the plot) had climaxed in an arrest and possible detention, we would have congratulated him for partnering with us. But the way he portrayed drug trafficking in the video was a means to an end, which the end is a life of affluence which we disagree with.” he said.
“We are looking at the issue holistically. We believe that there should be a body that was supposed to censor videos before they go out. Those are the things we want to investigate and verify. Was the video submitted for approval? If it was submitted, why was it approved, with such content?” he concluded

President Buhari reportedly refused to meet with Bukola Saraki

According to a report by Punch, Pres. Buhari has resisted new moves by Saraki to meet with him because he's still upset over what Saraki did during the National Assembly elections... 
    
An official in the Presidency said the President and the Senate President had only met once since the latter’s emergence as the leader of the senate. The official said all efforts by Saraki to have another meeting with the president, after the party’s National Executive Council meeting two Fridays ago, have proved abortive.
The reliable source said that Saraki had at different times reached out to people to help him persuade Buhari to grant him audience.
“The truth is that the President is still displeased with what transpired in the National Assembly, especially the Senate. Their encounter during the APC National Executive Council meeting, when they shook hands, was the first meeting between President Buhari and Saraki since he emerged as the President of the Senate.
“We are aware that Saraki has been going about begging people to assist him to plead with the President to meet with him. That was one of the reasons why he visited former President Obasanjo.
“I can tell you that the President is very pained by what happened. He felt that since he had been transparent with the party, everybody should play that way. But since Saraki took that path, the President was and he is still pained. Let us just hope that at the end of it all, they will be able to put the matter behind them.” the source said

5 Common Things That Could Ruin a Relationship

In relationship there are lot of things that can ruin relationship but we figured out some most common thing like Sulking for days, gossiping about partner, and empty promises are some things you will want to trash in a relationship  
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1. Long-time sulking
Releasing your anger is proven emotionally and psychologically healthy – everyone needs a relief.
Researchers have discovered that the physiological changes brought on by anger increases blood flow to the part of the brain that generates happiness in men, stimulating what is called ‘motivational direction’. – Men’s Health
However, prolonged anger results in nothing but worse outcomes. When you let your ego reign over your logic and heart – you tend to hurt people, as well as yourself.
GROW UP and release your anger healthily. Address the problem to your partner, then set an ‘angry alarm’ to remind yourself you shouldn’t be angry for more than, say, 6 hours. In the occasion of you bursting out of anger to your partner to compensate the hidden pressures you get from other parties, explain and let your partner help calm you down after a few rants.
2. The ex-files
They are called the exes for they are no longer relevant to you in the present. Our past partners have indirectly shaped who we are today, but they should remain nothing more than that.
Keeping romantic photos and sending presents every year for your ex’s birthday could hurt your current partner. The question that might then pop up will be: “Does she think her ex is better than me?”
“As a celebrant, I perform divorce ceremonies that are celebrations of closure and the beginning of a new life.” Dr Sarah Stedman.
GROW UP and realize that divorces and breakups are of one core: separation with a loved one. Hence, once you are separated – whether or not you remain friends, make sure you know the boundaries and priorities to maintain your present relationships.
3. Empty promises
‘I will do the dishes in a minute!’ ‘We are going to the movie this Saturday’, (insert more promises) and you have 10 promises to keep before you know it.
Sometimes the intention is sincere – we want to make our partners happy. But then again, we forget to consider other commitments before making a promise.
Public relations practitioners strive to make a product look distinctive, that sometimes they forget reality checks.
GROW UP and treat promises in your relationships as if you are a realistic marketing officer, analyzing dreamy projects. After a while, you can loosen up because you already know by heart which promises should and should not be made. A definite bi-weekly movie date night seems more realistic than an ambitious twice a week. *wink*
4. Gossip Girls
Five seasons and counting – the series keeps rolling on a single premise: gossips. Sure, it is therapeutic to talk to your friends about your relationship issues, but choose the topics and issues wisely.
For sensitive and intimate issues like sexual life, it is best to keep it as personal as possible. If you ever need advice, go to your trusted friends or opt for counselors.
GROW UP! As unpretentious a person that you are, you never know when people decide to make use of your personal information for their own benefits. What is just as important is that you have shown respect to your partner and relationship by keeping what’s personal, personal.
5. Sweep it all under the rug
People are well-loved for their strong investments in relationships. They are nurturing, affectionate, and considerate. Those positive traits, however, sometimes cost them for they don’t address issues in relationships because confrontations hurt them – their emotional beings as well as their egos.
Showing understanding when your partner works late soothes his tired mind. However, if he doesn’t even have time to ask how your day was for a long period of time – it’s time to have a talk with him.
“To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive – to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before.” – Rollo May
No matter what ‘type’ of person you are, GROW UP and open your eyes to the fact that delayed problems are bigger problems.

7 Things You’ll Always Remember about Your First Love

First love is pure and special. It fills the hearts of both women and men with inexplicable feelings. You can date as many guys as you want, but you will never forget your first love. I have met many old people who spoke about their first loves as if it happened a year ago. They remember the tiniest details like where they met for the first time, or what they were wearing. My mom once told me that people who don’t remember their first love have never loved anyone. 
  
Whether your first love didn’t work out, or you’ve just fallen in love for the first time, here are the most important things you will always remember about your first love:

1. The first kiss

I’m not talking about the first time you kissed a guy. I’m talking about the first time you kissed your first love. You will remember where and when it happened, and how you were sitting or standing. Plus, you will never forget those amazing feelings, no matter how many years pass.

2. The first time you met

You will never forget the place where you met your first love. You may even want to visit that place to remember those pure feelings and happy moments. I remember the first time I saw and spoke to my husband (he is my first and hopefully last love) and I even remember his first words, his clothes and his nervous smile. It was more than ten years ago but I remember almost every detail about the first time I met my love.

3. His smile

My aunt (who is already in her 50s) once told me that she can’t forget the smile of her first boyfriend, though she doesn’t love him anymore. I asked my cousins, friends and some coworkers if they could remember the smile of the first man they loved, and most of them said how nice that smile was. Smile is definitely one of those things you will always remember about your first love.

4. The first trip you had together

Do you remember the first trip you had together with your first love? Of course you do. That first trip was probably filled with new experiences, happy moments and some intimate moments. You may say, “I don’t remember that,” but once you think about it, you will recollect many details.

5. The laughs and the grief you shared together

No relationship is perfect. You had lots of fun times and probably you had a few bad times. When I felt in love with my husband, my grandmother died. It was one of the hardest periods in my life. I was unbearable and suffered from a severe depression, but he stayed with me all the time. He helped me to become happy again and I’m so thankful him for it. I will never forget it as well as I will always remember all those happy moments we had together. Having been together for ten years, we still enjoy the laughs and overcome the problems together as we did the first time we met.

6. Money wasn’t important

Let’s be honest, when you start dating a man in your 20s or 30s, you expect him to pay for your meal or trip, or buy something for you. There’s nothing wrong with that, because today people pay huge attention to money. When you were in love for the first time, chances are money wasn’t important to both of you. You didn’t think about luxury restaurants and top-flight resorts. You two were happy to have a small picnic or a long walk in the park without worrying about money.

7. How long your first love lasted

First love can last for a week, a month, a year, or forever. No matter how long your first love lasted, you will always remember about it. You may not remember the details and the dates, but you will never forget how long your first love lasted and why you broke up. It’s hard to forget a first love breakup. Luckily, I didn’t experience a first love breakup, but I think it’s impossible to get it out of the head for good.
No matter how hard we try, we can’t forget about a first love. There are things that you will remember for many years to come. First love is special so don’t try to get rid of it. Learn some precious lessons from it and appreciate those moments you had with your first love. Is it hard to forget a first love? What things do you remember about your own first love?

Top 5 Women’s Habits That Rob Men of Manliness

Every lady has a dream to build a strong and healthy relationship with a handsome and manly guy. Many of them don’t realize that dating a self-sufficient and real man is not an easy thing, because it requires constant development, motion and mutual respect.
Manliness is the key trait of a men’s nature. These men are used to compete, fight, win and do manly things. Women have always been trying to turn a lion into an obedient and harmless cat. According to their point of view, a married man should wave goodbye to friends, hobbies and dedicate almost ALL their time to the family. Unfortunately, ladies still believe that it will help them build a happy family union and avoid fights or the breach of faith. I think that neither kids nor beauty can prevent a manly husband from divorce, if you rob him of freedom, manliness and don’t give him breathe in a gulp of fresh air. Everything depends on his temperament, but his patience isn’t made of rubber. If your love is pure and infinite, he’ll swallow the pride from time to time in hope to save your relationship.
As a result, your man will either become a spineless creature or bang on the table with his fist and erupt like a volcano, because obedience is not a man’s pair of shoes. I hope this article will help you understand that women’s habits can kill men’s manliness and make all the members of your family miserable.  
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1. Taking total control over his life

Women are mega active and extremely curious creatures by nature. They usually do their best to succeed in everything they’re interested in. When they get married, they shift their focus to their men’s lives. They analyze their lifestyles and try to take control of every step made by their significant others. As far as I know, men cannot imagine a happy married life without personal space and trust. At least two or three hours a day they need to feel temporary freedom, digest thoughts and make right life decisions. Men usually become angry when women stick their noses into their affairs.
It’s very difficult to get rid of destructive habits, but if you really love your guy and want him to be the model of manly strength till the end of life, you should give in, because you’re a lovely woman, not a tyrant. You should always keep the phrase “Mind Your Business” in mind. This technique will help you rid yourself of this annoying habit and improve the quality of your family life.

2. Trying to become as strong and powerful as men

Though men and women are absolutely equal in their rights, modern women try to be dominated in many spheres of life. They refuse to follow old school rules and principles set by their ancestors, because being a shy, womanly and tender lady isn’t prestigious anymore. The new priorities of many women today are money, prestige, dominance and power. It seems this world turned upside down.
Not long ago my best friend bought the same model of BMW like her husband already had. When I asked her why she decided to choose such a big and high-powered car, she told me that she was fond of strength and speed. She didn’t agree that big cars were the toys of strong and manly guys. I’m sure that it’s bad when women lose their femininity and prefer to behave like boys. There’s no need to break the fundamental laws of nature. Women are born to behave like ladies and men are born to be real men.

3. Reforming his character

No matter how you slice it, it’s almost impossible to change the character of an adult male, but women still wholeheartedly believe that they’ll achieve a desirable result regardless of everything. But how can a woman reform the character of manly and self-sufficient man? One of the most effective and popular ways to do it is emotional blackmail. Even strong and sober-minded men are ready to do everything for the sake of their princesses. If your habit of nagging your husband is stronger than your love, then you’ll probably win the battle. You should remember that living according to only your rules and traditions will gradually throw your significant other off balance and make him the most miserable person in the world.

4. Taming and restraining men

It’s hard to believe but women fall in love with manly, fearless and interesting men, but a bit later prefer to get married and cohabit with henpecked husbands. Why do women dream of clipping their husbands’ wings? Sure, the main reason is the fear to lose their loved ones. Actually, it has a lot of pros and cons.
Your life becomes easier, if you know that your passive and predictable significant other is sitting at home and playing with kids. You don’t have to worry about his extreme hobbies and interests. But very soon, such a life will fill the heart of your lion with sorrow and despondency. I can state with assurance that a relationship where the rights and opportunities of partners are limited for one or another reason have the lowest chances for survival. Both spouses should cooperate and communicate with their friends and family members, because marriage is not a prison, but a happy union.

5. Making steep demands

Statistics prove that nowadays every man dreams of gradually turning his woman into a queen, while every woman dreams of finding an already wise, strong, courageous and wealthy king. The desire to live in prosperity and feel yourself completely comfortable and secured is a normal thing. Women should be careful of the words they say, because offensive phrases can hurt men’s soul more than swords.
Psychologists advise women to avoid any dangerous words, such as loser or milksop, because they can break men’s confidence and manliness into pieces. Try to reach your common goals together and never blame him for the failures and issues that sometimes take place in your family life. Motivate your dear knight in shining armor – you’re the main source of inspiration to him.
Every successful and wise lady appreciates manliness in her man, because this trait is an essential part of their love and family happiness. Try to take control of your habits and realize that the dream to tame your man can break a relationship, because dignity and freedom are the top priorities to men. Do you know any other habits that can steal men’s masculinity?

5 Reasons Ladies Need Good Guy Friends

I’m the one who finds male friends an inevitable part of my life. When I was a teenager, I was surrounded mostly by female friends, because I believed that friendship between men and women was impossible and pointless. A bit later, I analyzed everything and realized that different stereotypes made my life limited and boring.  
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Frankly speaking, I was sick and tired of constant rivalry between me and my female friends. Unfortunately, I couldn’t share my feelings or indulge in confidences with them, because they would spread my secrets in a quite short period of time. My decision to let male friends into my circle of contacts changed my life for the better. It was like a breath of fresh air that helped me open up and changed my mindset for growth.
They still fill my life with positivity, sincerity, joy and inspire me to be more creative and productive. It seems to me that it’s easier to stay friends with males, because they’re less judgmental of others. I’ve also noticed that guys don’t tend to undermine or backstab each other.
If you’re still hesitating, whether to make male friends or not, you should try to weigh all pros and cons of this friendship. I think that good guy friends will help you develop your personality and become an all-rounded individuality. If you’re a little bit shy by nature and have no concrete idea how to overcome the challenge of communicating with the opposite gender, you shouldn’t run to extremes. I’m sure that psychologist visits and various personal development courses will cost you a lot of money. You can just make friends with a good guy and get rid of your fears or uncertainty. I’d like to share my life experiences and prove you that a true friendship between men and women is not nonsense.  


1. You can explore the men’s nature

A man and a woman are two absolutely different human beings. It seems they’re living in different realities. There’s no doubt that every woman would like to understand males better. The best way to explore the men’s nature is by making more male friends. If you think that reading men’s magazines will help you study the psychology of men, then you’re mistaken. Only everyday communication will provide you a chance to understand their feelings, interests, values and thoughts. Your male friend is the only one who can give a valuable advice on how to win the affection of the man you’re in love with. This knowledge will come in handy in the future. Psychologists state that those ladies who get along better with guys have more chances to build long-lasting and romantic relationships with their significant others.

2. They have a good sense of humor

I’ve always been fond of men’s humor, because their funny jokes can relax the atmosphere and make me laugh regardless of everything. Every time I get into awkward situations my male friends always try to lift my spirits. Their jokes are the best remedy for me. Unlike women, men try to distract my attention from the problem and teach me to be more optimistic about everything. I think that this quality makes men emotionally strong and resistant to stress. Good humor is the choice of successful men. If you want to be surrounded with positivity and good-humored people, you should get rid of your stereotypes and agree that friendship between men and women is of great importance.

3. They can solve your problems

It’s been proved that men have a little bit another vision of the world. They’re inborn warriors who can easily face and handle harsh realities of this difficult life. Unlike women, they’re not afraid of challenges or risks, because the desire to win is running through their veins. I think that every lady needs a true guy friend ready to lend his shoulder in a difficult time. Male friends won’t wait until your break into tears and become disheartened. They’ll move the mountains to help you find the best solution to various problems.
Furthermore, their high degree of personal initiative gives you new opportunities and chances to develop, grow and win together. But it doesn’t mean that you should make male friends just for personal or business purposes.
Highly intelligent men have good mental and life skills. They can answer all questions you’ve always been interested in. These quality chats can significantly boost your self-confidence and make you more mature.

4. Men are more sincere

It’s a huge mistake to fully trust the human species, but I find it incredibly difficult to keep my secrets and feelings to myself. My best male friend Steve is the only person among my friends who I trust utterly. I can entrust him with my secrets and be sure that they will remain confidential regardless of everything.
As a woman, I know that all ladies are absolutely unable to keep secrets till the grave. I think that every woman is a fan of drama. Their excessive talkativeness can make them let the cat out of the bag unconsciously. I believe that men are more sincere and frank with their feelings and emotions. My male friends never play double games and prefer to tell me the truth. Sometimes this truth can be bitter and unpleasant, but it’s better than sweet lies.

5. It will increase your self-esteem

Regular communication with male friends will make you more attractive, confident and emancipated. If you want to be a successful woman, you should learn how to build and keep up both friendship and diplomatic relationships with men and women.
When I got acquainted with Steve, I was a real tomboy. Eight years of communication helped me turn into a real woman. He changed my mindset and taught me to dress up and behave like a lady. Now I can state with assurance that male friends are wonderful teachers. They fill the lives of women with bright colors.
No matter how you slice it, friendship between women and men has numerous advantages and disadvantages. If you’re going to make male friends you should listen to your heart and intuition to make sure that your intentions are pure. You should always keep in mind that no strings attached sex will break your true friendship into pieces at once.
Moreover, already engaged or married ladies should set priorities and try to behave correctly to avoid conflicts with their significant others. I hope this article will help you open up and break your stereotypes that create at first glance insurmountable barriers and limitations in your life. Have you ever made friends with good guys? Do you find this friendship real and profitable? We’d like to know your point of view!

Heartbreaking photos: 12yr old girl battered by her father in Lagos



12 year old Kafayat Kareem was battered by her father who used barb wire to beat her mercilessly for defending her mother during one of her parent's fight at their home in Orile Iganmu, Lagos. Kafayat's father pounced on his wife after he discovered she used his money to play lottto. Kafayat, who is a Junior Secondary School 1 student at Canal Secondary School, Orile, Lagos, said if not for the timely intervention of vigilante people who found her writhing in pain inside the market, she would have died.     



She narrated her experience to TheNation

"I live with my parents at 4 Kuforiji Street, Orile. On July 7th, I ran away from home after receiving severe beating from my father. My offence was that I tried to stop him from beating my mother. My father accused my mother of using his hard earned money to play lotto game and he descended on her with anything he could lay his hands on. My father alleged that my mother loves patronizing lotto game and he beat her up mercilessly and broke her knees. Despite my mother’s cry for help, none of our neighbours came to her rescue because they are afraid of my father. 
I could not bear the beating anymore and I begged my father to stop beating my mother. He became furious and pounced on me. 
This is not the first time my father will beat my mother and I. I have lost count of his endless beatings. On one occasion, I begged my mother to relocate four of us her children to Ilorin so we can stay away from our father due to his constant beating. I am the first child but my mother said my father will change but he has gotten worse by the day. My mother is presently on admission at the Charity Hospital at Orile following the beating my father gave her. 
I could not stand his beating anymore and I ran away from home to meet one of my mother’s friends at Oyingbo market but I did not meet her when I got to the market. I was in great pains and I decided to sleep in the market because I do not want to go back to my father’s house. It was while I was sleeping at the market that some vigilante men came and rescued me. I told them my plight and they took me to the hospital where I am presently receiving treatment”
Also speaking, the secretary of the Vigilante group of Nigeria at Ebutte Metta where Kafayat was found,  said after seeing the girl in so much pain, he mobilzed for her to be taken to a nearby hospital to receive medical attention
“On July 7th about 4am, I received a report from our members patrolling the Oyingbo market along the railway line that they found a girl laying in pains in one of the stalls. I told them to bring her to our office and when I saw her body, I asked her what happened and she told me that her father beat her with barb wire. I quickly mobilized and took her to the Star Clinic at Ebute- Metta where she is receiving treatment the wound on her body had become sores and I wonder what type of a father will beat a child like that. I took her to the Iponri police station to report the battering but the policemen there turned me back that they do not handle such a case. I took her to the Area C police Command at Surulere and the police there refused to attend to us. They told me to take her to the office of the Public defender. I have been running around with this girl since morning to get the necessary authority to look into this matter and arrest the father but they have refused to take the case,” the man said.